You work in a pretty good place. My female friends (from college) who work in different industries, are not judged by merits alone unfortunately. It ranges from make-up artists, marketing, to lawyers. Not only that, their female counterparts also judge them - ever notice that girls are usually competing against each other at clubs or events? It's subtle if you're a guy. They're not necessarily dressed to impress you.

You know, San Fran isn't the center of the world. And thanks for calling me a douche because I have to wear "pants" to meet with clients.