My husband and I don't wear wedding rings & I'm older than he is & fairly butch, but we have been married since 1999 and so I was a bit offended by the complainant's description of us. Dylan's then-new girlfriend did cancel at short notice & saying she had a cold was something of an excuse, but she is still Dylan's partner to this day, and in fact after the complainant & her husband went home that night, my husband, Dylan & I ran into Dylan's girlfriend's brother & some of his friends in the streets of Cork & they invited us out drinking & Dylan wanted to go. But we got him to take us home because I wasn't up for a late night.
Dylan does indeed flirt all the time with everyone, but that night he was not flirting with any intent other than trying to charm a politically powerful couple because he was new in the university. My husband and I just happened to have chosen the weekend the power dinner was already arranged for to come out & see Dylan's new house & meet his new partner, because my husband was working with a collaborator in Dublin earlier that week. We live in Bath, England, and Dylan used to work at the same university I do when we first moved here. Dylan thought we would all get on well, since we were all well-established academics (I think that's why his girlfriend felt out of place -- I think she was still a PhD student or postdoc at the time), so just added two people to his reservation.
After we had dinner at a restaurant that night, all five of us went out to a coffee shop & talked a bit longer after dinner. Everyone (all five people) seemed to be having a great time. The other couple actually seemed more relaxed & conversational at coffee than they had at dinner -- we figured the guy had been worried he was going to be lobbied for something specifically, but Dylan just wanted to get on good terms with him. My husband and I met Dylan's girlfriend the next morning & in fact we went rowing with her & Dylan in some kind of weird Irish longboat.
Personally, I first saw the fruit bat article when a Viennese PhD student facebook friend posted it & thought about sending it to Dylan because I knew he'd love it, but decided it wasn't the kind of thing you should send anyone but your partner & just sent it to my husband. Dylan's a lot more forward than I am, but then he's the one with book contracts & writing for the Guardian, not me. So I think it normally serves him in good stead.
Beware the new TTY code!