This post is close to the mark. This part is absolutely correct "If it is designed, built, and run by competent people." Nuclear power demands respect at all times.
I would qualify the second part of the statement, "who aren't being cheap." The U.S. is (mostly) built on the free market principle, so getting things done while making a profit is at the core of who we are. The laws surrounding power markets have been skewed so that wind and solar generators can bid their power for free, as they make money from production credits. That puts a tremendous burden on other generation types to be as low cost as possible. Nuclear still needs to be run safely with this huge disadvantage. I've seen it done well (I've long been part of making sure the rules are not bent during plant modifications) and I've seen it done while "being cheap," reference the Davis-Besse head incident. But the people I've worked with understand that nuclear is unique and have always put safety first.
The last part about Japan having a strong regulator is off the mark. Unlike the USNRC, the Japanese regulator was also bound by law to promote nuclear. This led to poor decision making. In the US, the NRC is only tasked with safety. And they have gone overboard at times. It is a can be a struggle to get the NRC on board with regulations that are both safe and cost effective. In any case, the Japanese regulatory authority was not equivalent to the USNRC, which was problematic for oversight of their plants.
One thing most people don't know. After Fukushima, plants in the US got together to address the problem of how to ensure plants can be cooled even if an unknown and unforeseen event should occur. All U.S. plants have upgraded their design to accept external cooling and electrical sources, and they fund two sites (one in Phoenix, one in Memphis) that have multiple sets of backup cooling and electrical equipment that can connect to any plant. They have pre-arranged with FedEx to be able to get this equipment to any plant in the U.S. that needs it in an emergency. The plans are extensive, and include heavy lift helicopter companies, National Guard, and state police to ensure the process works. Each plant (or multiple plants if they are geographically close) has also purchased their own set of external electrical and cooling equipment with detailed plans to employ it if needed. These sets of equipment are kept in bunkers, with equipment that can move downed trees or other debris out of the way to get to the external connections.
So I would argue that the U.S. has responded appropriately and in a technically adequate manner to the Fukushima meltdowns.