Worked hard all of my life. Put two kids through school and supported a wife, all on one income.
Then my wife decided that she wanted to "focus on herself"
At best, my ex will take half of what we managed to put away through my long hours of work. I will lose my home. I have no idea where I will live.
At worst, I will be forced to continue paying her half of my "potential earning capacity" for the rest of my life, or at least as long as I am still healthy enough to keep earning for my ex wife. She doesn't have to do anything.
This is modern-day slavery. But it is ok because I am male and no one cares about males.