I'm in a similar boat. I've owned everything from a 300ZX twin turbo to an E60 M5 and an SL63. I love cars and I love driving. I must be one of the very few people, however, that doesn't care for the noise associated with an ICE engine. I used to like the rumble of a V8 at idle or at low RPM but then .... I bought a Model S. A P90D. And that must have re-wired my brain because firstly, the acceleration is like nothing I had ever experienced before. And I rented a Ferrari 360 so I know what "fast" is, even compared to my M5 and SL63. Secondly, I've done more than 200,000km and the only repair item has been the passenger door handle wouldn't pop out. That was $450.
Then I upgraded to a Model S Plaid and let me assure all of you with Hellcats, Demons, ZR1s, Mustang something-or-the-other, Lamborghinis etc. You are not faster. You might make a bunch more noise and shred your tires, but you're not faster. Not by a long shot. It's embarrassing how slow your car is compared to a Plaid. You might like the noise your engine makes and you might think you're doing everyone in a 100m radius a favor by forcing them to listen to your straight pipes but a significant percentage of them want you to wrap yourself around the nearest lamp post when you zoom by with your engine screaming at 6,000rpm.
For the record, I don't speed. Sure, I'll do the traffic light grand prix next to someone in their ICE car but I shut it down right before I hit the speed limit - which is normally ~3 seconds of full bore acceleration and none of the drama of squealing tires either. The traction control is magical. The rest of the time, I engage FSD and stick to the speed limit. 40 years of driving, not a single speeding ticket.
I know EV's aren't for everyone - the charging structure is progressing at a lightning pace in many locations but for a lot of people, it's a hassle. I get it. But we have 3 EVs in our 4 driver household and one legacy ICE car. When it comes time to replace the ICE car, it will be with an EV. I'd recommend everyone test driving an EV at least for a full day - it will re-wire a LOT of your brains :) It doesn't have to be a Tesla either, although I've driven almost every EV available in my country and I found Tesla's to be the best for me but there are plenty of other EVs that arguably look better, are less expensive, and will fit most peoples needs.
Resale value is poor on EV's for reasons I don't quite understand but if you want an EV, that works out awesome for you. I got my Plaid for practically half price off MSRP and it was 3 years old. I have no intention of selling it ever so the resale doesn't bother me.