Re:Sports! (Score 1)

Sports or team events is the key. If there is anyway that you can get him into a sporting event and just work with him it works great. I know it worked with me and I also had a neighbor who fit the exact same description as the kid you described and his key was baseball. He loved it and learned to get along with other kids and not mind them as much (although he still had a harder time that most making friends). He still improved dramaticaly. Then if he decides to do a team event you have to encourage him so that he feels he is a key person on the team and doesn't get down on himself. Good Luck