I don't know if "they" have simply won, or if these things truly don't matter; I just don't care any more. They aren't going to illegally transfer funds from my bank account, change my children's grades at school, give me a false criminal record, sign me up for Ashley Madison, or give a damn what I buy my wife for her birthday (advertising purposes aside). I just don't care. The OS works, I like it, I'm using it.
I *did* opt out of the unique advertising ID sharing, but who knows how trustworthy/thoroughly that option works. As I said, perhaps the makers of much of the software / electronic services we use have finally won, at least in my case, because I just don't care any more. I'm tired of worrying about every last thing that they might or could be doing that may be a bit creepy, or at least against my own concept of what's okay. I just want a PC that works, and 10 seems to give me that.