racÂism/ËrÄËOEsizÉ(TM)m/ noun the belief that all members of each race possess characteristics or abilities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races. pretty sure that you're using the wrong word here because attraction isn't tied with racism however similar it may sound. if they had said, that "being Black is bad for human genetics" or that they "could not stand to have to drink at the same water fountain"... that's racist.

... in the sense that the idea of your persona can decide things. A personality is an idea of who you think you are, and ideas can not decide things. YOU can decide things, but an idea is a product of the mind and can not decide for itself. The mind is not all of reality.