Am I the only /. user that used this successfully? (Score 1)

Exactly 8 months 12 days ago I got an email from Crushlink and thought I'd check it out. I spent some time to make a list of 4 girls I liked and voila! I matched with a girl that I liked but I never knew she liked me! So we started going to the day after and that's why I know the email was 8 months 12 days ago, because we've now been dating 8 months 11 days! I was so happy I even wrote into their "stories" email address but never received a reply. Are my girlfriend and I the *only* successful users of this site? Also, I haven't received any spam from Crushlink or other sites so I thought this was totally legitimate (after all, it was responsible for my new girlfriend), so I was kind of shocked to see the article and all the comments. Do we know for sure that they spam or are people just frustrated that they can't figure out who likes them? (like a couple of my friends :)