I have this "flying vs driving" debate with my wife all the time. She loves to throw the "...statistically flying is safer than driving" argument in my face, but as previously stated, statistics are aggregates of information, and I'm not an aggregate ... I'm one person. At the personal level (where it counts to me) the argument comes down to one of control vs no control. When I step on to a plane I'm handing all control of my personal safety over to a company/people I don't know. I have no idea the mechanical condition of the plane, the capability/experience of the pilots, what weather conditions the airline consider an "acceptable risk", etc. At least in my own car I'm both aware of its mechanical condition and I'm in control, to the best of my abilities, of when and how I get from point A to point B. I can choose to remain focused on the road, aware of the conditions, and not distracted (no, I don't text while driving). I've been in plenty of driving situations where suddenly 'shit happens' (an idiot is heading straight for you trying to pass five cars, a deer jumps out in front of you, etc) and because I was wide awake, focused, and in control I'm still here to write this post. As cool as flying is (and I've flown plenty) I'd rather take my car any day.