I remember Delta Force's "one shot anywhere on the body kills you" model. But we played that game endlessly, even after more realistic games came out. Granted, I also liked the FPS games that actually let you get shot in the ankle and not die immediately, but for fun gameplay, we didn't mind games like DF not having full-on realism. I mean, what did we do when we played "Cowboys and Indians" outside? Or paintball, or Airsoft? You got hit, you were "dead." The lack of inherent realism let us bring our own imagination to it.
More to the point of the article, I can think of a few examples where games I play have recently added "realsim" in a frustrating manner.
1. Madden NFL/NCAA Football. I enjoy console football games, like NCAA and Madden. A few versions back, Madden added in this pre-season and other manager-type stuff, the idea of "you're a coach/manager, so do all the coachy/managerish stuff." It was irritating when I just wanted to set up a season and play (Tecmo Super Bowl?). IIRC, there was no easy way to skip all that stuff, so I just gave up on Madden (and didn't they later come out with "Coach" so you don't even have to play the game to play the game?). Even NCAA became irritating, with in-season suspensions (which seem more prevalent when your team is successful, perhaps as a way to gimp you), and a slew of irritating pre-season stuff. Heck, it could take a few hours to go from the end of one season to the beginning of the next with recruiting, etc. Granted, I can (and often do) skip many of those steps, but it just draws the game out.
Side note: does anyone else think the more realistic they try to make player movements, the weirder they look?
2. WoW. Was it 4.0 that brought us the big graphics changes? "The water will appear more realistic, terrain will be more lifelike." WTH? I expect it to be a game, not a movie in which my main is the star. So we can skip the very realistic graphics. I don't fly from Ironforge past Menethil and think, "Gee, what lovely looking water they've made now." Maybe some folks do, I dunno. It looked great before the graphics improvements. Granted, I don't want Atari 2600 or Intellivision graphics, but I don't really care for the changes.
I do appreciate that they can now take advantage of the ATI ZOMG or the Nvidia RAWKYERSAWKSOFF cards, but I'll opt for playing the game over focusing so much on "realism."