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Comment Re:Sounded good ... never tried it (Score 1) 1345

Please do a little research. Lots of kids aren't reading by 9, and it's not a problem in reality. It's only a problem because of the arbitrary school schedule that says kids need to be reading independently by then. Some kids read at 3 or 4. Others read at 9 or 10. The end result, studies show, is that by age 12 or so, you can't tell the difference between a kid who started reading "early" and one who started reading "late." There is no significant difference because the older kids catch up really fast. And while they were not yet reading, they were busy learning other things and developing other skills (such as visual memory, memorization, etc.) that serve them well during and after that time.

Comment Re:Sounded good ... never tried it (Score 1) 1345

Many homeschoolers, and most unschoolers, allow their kids to learn to read on their own time table. It helps to let kids become developmentally ready to read before trying to teach them to read. Unfortunately, this is something schools can't do: they need to make everyone do the same things at the same time, whether they're ready or not. When it comes to reading, this strategy creates frustrated kids who learn to hate reading and who get labeled learning disabled, when, in fact, their brains just aren't ready. Read up a little, for example, on right-brained learners, whose 2D processing abilities don't typically fully develop until the age of 8-10. Those kids' brains aren't ready for reading until then, but schools just keep trying to cram it down their throats. And then they blame it on the kids -- call them lazy, learning disabled, etc. -- when it takes them 2-4 years to learn to read.

Comment Re:Unschooling != Goofing off (Score 1) 1345

For example if you really wanted to design computer games your english/writing work could be incorporated into doing a design doc/writing a story/dialog for your game. Your math/science work would be incorporated into the project as well since you'll probably want to know physics/chemistry so you can make your game realistic, and you'll probably need math all over the place to design various game systems. The big trick with unschooling is that you and/or your parents have to see how to incorporate your interests into everything you're learning.

Actually, it's more that you learn by pursuing your interests. Learning is a natural byproduct of doing.

Basically, the unschooling philosophy was let you kid do what they want and drive them toward learning what their passionate about. This is very similar to the environment one encounters in graduate school while doing Masters or PhD research.

Again, I'd say that you don't drive your kids toward learning. The learning happens when they're doing things they're interested in. And it really happens when they're doing things they're passionate about.

Comment Re:Any Software Engineers out there? (Score 1) 1345

I'm not a software engineer, but I'm married to one who started out with a double-major in liberal arts and then moved on to a master's degree in a related area. And then, after age 30, he became a software engineer ... because he wanted to. He did not go back to school. He figured out what he needed to know and he learned it, much of it on the job after changing fields. That's unschooling in a nutshell. And unschooled kids are even better at it than adults because nobody's taught them that in order to do something, you have to jump through 1,000 irrelevant loops to get there, or that they have to learn about the Mayflower right now, when what they're really interested in is reading that Harry Potter book over there. They have a goal, and they achieve it in the shortest, most efficient way they can (with a lot of support from their parents).

Comment Re:Unschooling led me to software development (Score 1) 1345

Bravo! You can't unschool if you live by dogma. Unschooling means truly honoring your kids for who they are and not who you want them to be or think they should be. That means accepting that they might love video games that you hate or might hate to read when you love to read. It means they might be "quirky" their whole lives, or you might be the quirky one who ends up having the straight-laced kid. It's all about freedom to learn and think in the real world. Passion, respect, and yes, education (just not school).

Comment Re:Wow. I can't even believe you're serious (Score 1) 1345

Unschoolers don't live in a vacuum. We live and learn in the real world every day. We're the ones in the library and museums during "school hours," spending as much time there as we want, finding the books we want and seeing the exhibits we want, without someone telling us it's time to stop learning because the bell rang or the bus is leaving. Unschooled children are not left alone to figure things out for themselves. The parents support them in everything they do. If they don't know how to read a word, we read it to them. If they can't figure out how to add their allowance to the money they have saved, we show them. If they have questions, we answer them, and if we don't know the answers, we help find them. We support them, we honor their innate curiosity, and we love the fact that our kids never ask, "Is this going to be on the test?" Really, unschooling is not unparenting or uneducating. It's just unSCHOOLING. Big difference.

Comment Re:Just do Montessori instead (Score 1) 1345

I've done Montessori and unschooling. Montessori is great, but it's difficult to find Montessori schools that are true to her writings. All the Montessori schools we investigated locally are really Montessori-lite. They implement some of her ideas but seem to be afraid to really give the kids the kind of freedom Montessori espoused. Then again, Montessori had very rigid ideas about some things, so her idea of freedom doesn't quite match mine. Unschooling really is learning in freedom, if you let go of the "what if" fears and give it a go for real.

Comment Re:Sounded good ... never tried it (Score 1) 1345

But a funny thing happened on the way to unschool. By the time our kids were done with their reading and writing and arithmetic lessons, they didn't have much more time for learning through play than any other kids did. [snip] In time, we added the usual history and geography and science and so on, and though we never did subscribe to anybody else's curriculum, ours ended up looking pretty standard.

If you were giving your kids lessons and requiring that they complete them, you weren't unschooling.

Comment Re:Good luck in university (Score 1) 1345

From Princeton's web site: //Princeton welcomes applications from home schooled students. Although they still make up a very small portion of the applicant pool, applications from home schooled students have been increasing. Among the home schooled students admitted in recent years was a student who graduated as valedictorian of the Class of 2002.// http://www.princeton.edu/admission/applyingforadmission/tips_for_home_schooled/ Stanford likes homeschoolers, too: //Former Stanford University admissions counselor Jon Reider, one of the first to draft an admissions policy for home-schoolers, said such applicants often stood out for their maturity. "There were things these home-schoolers had," Reider said. "A certain amount of responsibility. They were in charge of their learning process. They were impatient with normal assignments and reading lists." When Reider left Stanford seven years ago, he said there were 36 home-school applications. This year, the university counted 104. http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/06/10/AR2007061001351.html There are more, of course. But I think these two examples disprove your claim.

Comment Re:I call bullshit (Score 1) 1345

There's a huge difference between "uneducated" and "unschooled." The problem, as I see it, is that people in our society are too busy trusting bureaucrats and self-proclaimed experts, rather than thinking for themselves. I'd rather have a nation of self-educated individuals than the nation of gullible, groupthinkers that we have now.

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