Re:Gay? (Score 1)

Actually, we are 'out there' so to speak. Some of use could use the dating advice too -- although a lot of it would apply to anyone, I think. I agree that personality is the most important trait in a guy. Of course if he doesn't bathe/groomm it will make being around him physically unpleasant, which is not a basis for a relationship. I also have the problem of being over 40 -- which makes it a lot harder to find partners. (It seems some or many gay men are as obessessed with age, appearence etc. as are straight guys; just look at the personal ads in any paper -- what is in each category, F ISO M, F ISO F, M ISO M, M ISO F). But I know darned well it isn't all guys! Other interests -- I'm only a geek by necessity. I want to be an anthropologist, but right now grad school is too expensive. I'm also in a lot of other groups, like SCA, SF fandom, Furry Fandom, etc. In other words, other than poor self-confidence, I have like many others, no idea why I can't find somebody! -- blackfeather tanfur Geek of Perl/FreeBSD