Good for you, I have, my sister has, her ex has, my parents have. Some of us don't have everyone we know in the same town or city with none of them ever leaving it.

32 bit support simply means being able to run applications compiled for 32 bit machines, not that the devices have not used 64 bit processors. Maybe learn the difference between those. All apple did was drop support for old applications in 2017 where as Android has allowed those to still be used for much longer. I've tend to find apple phones are the ones that lag, with for example, 5ghz wifi (I had to turn 2.4Ghz back on in my parents house for a fairly new apple phone years ago when everything else was fine, and I don't run bleeding edge stuff), wireless charging, usb-c, useful battery life, and allowing decent keyboards rather than just the rubbish stock one.