Ok, so I save some money on internet access, but how much more of my taxes will be wasted on other things that I don't use? Things like welfare, college assistance for minorities (which I'm not a member of), social "security" which will most likely be bankrupt by the time I'm of retiring age, etc.
Shouldn't you take each program separately on its merits? If publicly owned internet infrastructure will save you money, then perhaps you should vote for that and against the things that you consider wasteful. The list of government programs is not static or monolithic. One can be removed without needing to remove all of them and one can be added without needing to agree with all the others.
Would you argue against having a police or fire service simply because you disagreed with having social security, college assistance, etc?
If you see beyond the small benefits that you might get, you see that taxation usually is a net loss for the majority and a net gain for the minority. All taxation can do is redistribute wealth,
Only in the same sense that all spending money can do is redistribute wealth. When the government builds a communications network they spend taxpayers money to build something of value to virtually all taxpayers. The same with building roads, power-line networks, etc. It makes doing business easier, cheaper, more efficient. Can you imagine if all trucks had to transport goods via toll-roads. It would likely make things a lot more expensive by the time they reach the shop-front.
yeah, I might get lucky and win a few times, but its like playing the slot machine, its designed to give money to the house (government).
The government isn't a for-profit organisation. Your analogy would be more appropriate if all of the gamblers at the casino were also its shareholders.
And really, when you eliminate all trade barriers which are government imposed such as laws forbidding competition in ISPs in order to get the town some crap connection for cheap, you end up with multiple options in time.
Once a town has a decent fiber-network it's unlikely anyone would lay down a second one right next to it, anymore than they would lay a competing road, railway, or power-line down the same row of houses. Infrastructure is a natural monopoly and not subject to the kind of competition that keeps prices and service reasonable in manufacturing and retail markets.