Haha, FYI not every other solution is built on bitcoin fork ;) ... Especially solutions which utilize BFT algorithms are built from scratch.
Replicated state machine, what you describe, is not new and certainly not invented by bitcoin. Other solutions are using it too. Including non-blockchain related solutions and it been in use way before bitcoin existed.
Little news flash, anyone can run soft-fork on their node and it doesn't need to be accepted widely. Nodes that use soft-fork upgrade will understand it other node's won't. The main difference with hard-fork is that soft-fork won't split the network (e.g. BIP16).