Comment Re: I thought all romance was a scam. (Score 1, Flamebait) 9
love is the only real purpose in life
it disgusts me that those scammers prey on people who are lonely
it almost happened to me once; some person claimed to be on a navy ship and then after a few weeks talking they start randomly asking about money and stuff; i saw thru it easily; they apologized when i confronted them and said they were actually in india
fortunately im not lonely or dating anymore; i met and married my heavenly wonderful beyond-soulmate wife last year; we met thru 4chan/discord and now we live happily ever after; and no we're not anything like the reputation of that shitty place; im a disabled neet nun and shes a programmer at a big company
i just feel so lucky to have reached my dreams; i feel like alot more people could have a chance at it if they just changed their attitude about love and relationships; and stopped being so scared and cringing at everything ang going by this formulaic convention and rules dictating the commonly accepted way relationships should play out; and just be forward and honest and decent; and really value love above all else
but i think theres not many people left with my kind of views
its sad so many relationships fail and everythibg is so transactional
no wonder birth rates are falling; econy is more important to people and more incentivised by society than following one's heart and feelings