Your life up until this accident has sounded fairly idyllic and easy. Apparently this has been a very rude wake up call. Your daughter took your hundred thousand dollar car for a 100mph tirade through town with cocaine in her system. We all do stupid things, some more stupid than others. She made a series of very serious mistakes and luckily no one else was killed or badly hurt.
Just wondering, wasn't she driving something more like a 20,000 dollar Honda Civic?
Heuristics are bug ridden by definition. If they didn't have bugs, then they'd be algorithms.