Good point bigtomrodney. It reminds me of the all the panic over online credit card use. I used to respond to people like this: "hmm so you trust the unshaven overweight fella in the gas station who could have a camera snapping pics of your card as he swipes it over an online JCPenny.com computer that has no feelings or motives?" Every time the response I got was that they never considered that and then thought differently.
I don't mean to sound like I'm playing "blame the victim" here, what I am trying to do is point out the responsibility of self defense. I honestly wonder (which means I'm looking to hear some answers from people here) why kids let the 'net and their peers be so important to them in the first place. The only answer I can think of that can be proven is they are too lazy. Remember the phrase "Idleness is the devil's business"? That seems to come into play here. A school athlete or even music and drama student doesn't have the time for this kind of thing to bother them or be bullied by anyone in the first place. Contrary to hollywood likes to show serious bullies are not found in athletic programs because bullies tend to have lousy grades which gets them booted from athletics in the first place. Oh some of them act like jerks once in a while but that's a far cry different than a bully. If any of them did act that way you have a recourse through the coach and the practice field.
In essence bullies are losers so the best way to avoid a bully is not be a loser as well. Be involved in activities wether it be school affiliated ones, a martial arts or dance school, or volunteer at the local nursing home. Being active and non-idle reduces the time and chances to be bullied!
Why is this not emphasized more? Instead the emphasis we see is on enforcement against bullies which is as useless as the overall fight against drugs. Oh sure the sting operation leading to a pushers arrest one day might maybe prolong one users life for one day but the overall effect is miniscule. But the programs to keep people from becoming users in the first place has proven to have large long term effects yet it gets the less emphasis and funding. See the correlation?
Your thoughts?
Rob