Only extends to the female, and I don't know what anyone would be honest if they said that this was the case less than 100% of the time.
See, the thing about "compassion", and the reason that it's in such short supply, is that men don't get any, and you tend to get what you give in life.
This was an old man. This are not the normal actions of an old man. What would compel him to do such things? Dementia? Early-stages of Alzheimers? Some past traumatic event in his life. Even perversion is a sign of potential mental deviance, almost none of which is voluntary.
What if she took advantage of him? Old man, young woman, it's not hard to see how he may have been flattered. And his patterns with other women certainly show he had some weird proclivity toward it all. That he was a sucker for younger women. That they could easily make him think they were attracted to him and this somehow elicited a response in him.
But, there is no compassion. None. Men commit suicide 4x more often than women (yet women get treated more often for depression), and this is a large reason why. Women enjoy very benefit of the doubt, and men are held fully accountable for everything that they do, without any sympathy whatsoever for the things that have effected them in their own life.
And people crow about "compassion".
Compassion does not discriminate, and if you do, you're not truly compassionate. Compassion requires that we hold the un-proven guilty as innocent, because it would be cruel to do otherwise. The mob always favors the popular explanation.
And if this situation is one of "power", I would say it's the weakest example that I've personally ever seen. You can always extrapolate some power imbalance if you look hard enough. Frankly, I don't think I should be held to any of the contracts I've signed. I have ADHD and do not read them all. My weaknesses are being exploited to financially enslave me, yet, who speaks out for me? I've been homeless before, and my fear of being homeless again causes me to do all kinds of shit I don't want to do for my employer. Fucker is totally exploiting my fears.
So, she had issues. Well, guess what, nearly half of American women are on some form of psychiatric medication. That's 50% of women who cannot be held accountable for their actions. Take that, potential employers.
And how is it that this woman is from a culture that discourages speaking out, yet, she's been speaking out for over a year. Kind of contradicts that whole claim, eh?
No, no, let me guess, it was the third Tuesday under a full moon when she sent the pictures, clearly, CLEARLY causing her to be more passive and yada yada yada.
Alright. As long as this same extreme, contorted, heavily-clauses, benefit-of-the-doubt is given to everyone but, oh wait, it's not.
And you're all evil for not going along with the thought-control experiment.
That's my position anyway.