You should be able to operate any control of the car without looking. That means if you have to adjust the AC, you need be able to do it without having to take your eyes out of the road. Your parents had to do it when everything was a knob or button, you should be able to do it when everything's just there button on a screen.
About to say, my Switch never downloaded the entire game when I put the cart in. I think the only games it "downloads" are the cloud-based ones like Kingdom Hearts and Resident Evil.
Then you are not doing your job right. Not to say you have to fill your video with censor beeps, but maybe not use the public voice chat in a Call of Duty-type game.
The more important question should be can get an answer without all the "OH MY GOD NO! (The Government/Apple/Amazon/Google/Someone) WILL HEAR EVERYTHING!"