Basically, yea. As a avid cyclist who rides well over 5000 miles a year, I have seen it all. When I hear about a cyclist getting hit, I certainly mourn it, but if I hear it was the cyclists fault, my sympathy fades entirely. Same with people who die in car crashes caused by their own stupidity. There was a recent local story about a guy who was hit and killed while riding his bike. My local cycling community was outraged, until we learned he was going the wrong way on a one way street and went around a blind corner in the dark. The guy driving the bus that hit him had no chance to react. Sorry, no sympathy, guy was being a moron.
One of my closest friends was hit while riding his bike and had to be life-flighted out. He survived but will never be the same. He was riding in a perfectly legal place, and following all the laws. However he was riding on a busy road during rush hour. Not the smartest move. He is lucky to be alive. He now understands he shouldn't have been riding there.
When I ride, I do it on nearly deserted farm/country roads. The vast majority of people passing me do so courteously because I am not holding them up any and moving into the oncoming lane for a few seconds is safe to do out there. All of the strawman stories in this thread about cyclists holding up lines of cars just doesn't apply to the cycling culture where I live/ride.
It isn't hard to coexist with all road users. This applies to both motorists and cyclists. As a cyclist I implore EVERYONE to pay attention, follow the rules, and we will all get where we are going safely