Comment It's not always the parents... (Score 1) 1311
It's not always the parents... Parents can do a great job at raising their kid when the kid is at home, but when a child is at school parents have about zero influence.
A child can get psychologically demolished by his/her fellow children at school. Children can be quite cruel to eachother... That can leave its traces...
Parents mostly don't notice until it is too late. Those traumas are with someone for the rest of their lives; wether conscious or unconscious, but those traumas can make someone do weird things.
So don't immediately point to the parents alone and say that they are responsible; there can be more to it... Though I have to admit that quite some parents have made an unresponsible impression upon me...
A child can get psychologically demolished by his/her fellow children at school. Children can be quite cruel to eachother... That can leave its traces...
Parents mostly don't notice until it is too late. Those traumas are with someone for the rest of their lives; wether conscious or unconscious, but those traumas can make someone do weird things.
So don't immediately point to the parents alone and say that they are responsible; there can be more to it... Though I have to admit that quite some parents have made an unresponsible impression upon me...