Comment Drugs should be your last resort (Score 4, Informative) 864
First, find out which sub-type she has. There are many different subtypes that each have different treatments. Take the on-line tests at:
http://www.amenclinic.com
Second, check out the pioneer in non-drug therapies:
http://www.drakeinstitute.com
If you do have to resort to drugs, try Strattera, which is a new, non-addictive, non-stimulant treatment that looks very promising:
http://www.strattera.com/index.jsp