Give up the girl offering easy sex now, have a self-respecting partner for the rest of your life.
Why are these exclusive? You can have both.
Also, I don't like the moralizing tone of your post, it smacks of dog whistle racism.
"Dog wistle racism"? Well ignoring the inapplicable metaphor, I didn't read any morals into this comment. Yes you could have it both ways, but in matters of sex we tend to just repeat past behavior, statistcally speaking of course. Perhaps you would be more comfortable with the Marshmallow Experiment: You could eat this one marshmallow now, or wait 20 years for a successful career and relationship instead.
Biology is the only science in which multiplication means the same thing as division.