Comment Playing "Zuck's Advocate" (Score 1) 106
Allow me, if you will, to play "Zuckerberg's Advocate" here. Ms Brockes implies in her opinon piece that all humans should have multiple "friends" who "reciprocate" and "know" them and "understand" them. But ask yourself honestly, do you have human friends? Many people have none. What, then, are those people to do?
And for those who do have human friends, ask yourself honestly, how fully do they "reciprocate" and "know" and "understand" you? If you're honest, I think you'll have to admit, "not very well". Ultimately, the only person who can fully "know" and "understand" Person A is Person A themselves.
And reciprocation lasts only as long as the two persons in-question are alive; but friends die. In 1995, I had 3 close friends; but by 1999 I only had 1; the other two died of heart attacks. (Hi-carb diets => atherosclerosis => myocardial infarction => death.) So there is no guarantee that any person you know right now will still be alive in a week or a month or a year. "Time and chance", to quote Ecclesiastes.
Not that I'm belittling intimate relationships between humans; I'm not; those are beautiful things; I'm just saying, not every human is likely to have one. Ann Druyan once wrote the following of her late husband Carl Sagan, and this is a beautiful quote, yes: “I don't think I'll ever see Carl again. But I saw him. We saw each other. We found each other in the cosmos, and that was wonderful.” But many (most?) people will never have such a relationship in their lifetime. So to avert self-termination, they turn to other things instead: Dogs, gardening, hiking, books, MMORPGs, cigarettes, booze, drugs, crime, etc. So why NOT chatterbots? If it helps people be less-lonely (and hence mentally healthier) then I think that's a good thing, not a bad thing. It's certainly better than some of those OTHER substitutes I just listed.