Comment Re:Easy (Score 1) 1091
The IS poster is simply saying that for TGs, the surgical alteration to make them some form of apparent IS is optional from a physical perspective, and if I'm not mistaken expensive.
Yes I agree, that is exactly what the OP has said, what I take offense to is the fact that it was said, and that it was said with the intent of legitimizing IS people at the expense of TG people in the eyes of society,.. or in this case, slashdotters.
I am not bent out of shape, I am not angry, I am not upset,I am not sensitive, I am merely calling someone out on something they said that in my opinion is a wrong thing to say.
Which is why she qualified that statement.
Well, OK, you can qualify any statement but it does not erase the intent or the effect of the statement.
As an example, what If I were to say "No offense to you black people, but you guys can't swim very well!", would the "No offense" erase any of the offense? I would think no, this is a pretty mild example but the possibilities are endless.
Y'all are too sensitive. Not that you don't have reason to be. So lighten up on the girl.
Well I can't speak for others but I can't say I am sensitive. Merely trying to right the wrong perceptions about my and other's gender/sex status, saying nothing would be negligent.
One example of this is the way kids these days use the word "gay" = "bad", even people who have gay friends, saying nothing is permitting the practice to continue.
Personally, I find the whole surgical alteration a bit creepy, but totally logical. In fact, I find it hard to fathom why all G&L people don't do it. Based on my limited understanding of the whole thing. I mean if you're attracted to the same sex, the best chance of finding the best mate is to alter your parts to maximize potential relations with the sex you're attracted to. Fortunately, for me, I don't have that problem. I like women and I have all the necessary parts interact with them. My heart goes out to those poor souls that don't fit into the "right" pegs.
I do understand your logic and it is certainly not a stupid conclusion to come to without having experienced BEING transgendered or transsexual, but that's simply not how it works.
Infact, the incidence of MtF(Male-to-Female) Transsexuals who are attracted to females, and the incidence of FtM(Female-to-Male) Transsexuals who are attracted to males are quite high.
I think it's hard to explain to a cisgendered person when your brain says you are female/male and your body is the opposite, you can't go against how your brain is wired.