See - people are different and one person's preference will be very different from the next one's.
First, which side of the window, and for that matter the screen, are all of the menus on? That's right, the left-hand side. So why would you want to have to move your mouse a thousand pixels to close a window?
To make it harder to accidentally close a window if all you want to do is access the menu.
Second, what is the most destructive operation you can perform on a window? Closing it. Why on earth are you beating your users over the head by putting the most destructive operation that close to the corner? When it's on the corner, it's much easier to hit by accident, for example when reaching to resize the window. This has happened time and again with me on Windows to the point of absolute fury
Interesting. I personally have never tried to resize a window by grabbing the top right corner - and especially if I knew I could hit the close button by mistake, I'd probably use one of the other corners and reposition the window if necessary.
Every Mac user can immediately appreciate the position of the window controls, if they use them at all. They are clearly colored for improved accuracy, they're out of the way, and what's even better, you usually don't have to use them, since OS X's Expose is so much more convenient, even more so than Compiz, anyways
I don't find a lot of relevant and/or accurate observations in that last part of your rant. For instance, why would color coding improve accuracy? Why would Expose be relevant here, since it serves a totally different purpose than the window buttons?
But in the end, I guess, most of what goes in this whole thread is a matter of taste and, as they say, de gustibus non est disputandum.