This is not the NASA of old, say, the Apollo days. Things have changed. There were good changes (just watch "Hiidden Figures"), and not so good ones. The shuttle losses had all sorts of impacts.
Overall, NASA is still kept afloat by many inspired and invested people who go above and beyond to make the mission happen. But NASA is also a lot more sclerotic and bureaucratic than it used to be. There are a lot of one-hatters. A lot of people who ride their hobby horse but nothing else. Not enough real (!) accountability, paired with an unreasonable amount of paperwork. Risk management sometimes going haywire (in either direction, too much or too little). DOGE did not help, a lot of good people left, and some (if not even too many) of the wrong people stayed.
With all that on the menu, its no surprise that NASA is somewhat of a shadow of its former self. One of the early reasons for people to join SpaceX was recapturing that old NASA engineering spirit. I get it - not that SpaceX seems like a healthy place to work at.
Throw into the mix that "space" has become even more political (always has been), NASA management is trying to play a weird game of pleasing everybody and offending nobody while having not nearly enough money to do this, adding all the things politicians want it to do (without funding it properly), and often an apparent disregard inside NASA HQ as to what is going on in the real world (including NASA itself and other agencies) - and you get strange outcomes.
I am not surprised that NASA goes ahead with this launch. I am pretty sure that they feel "we must beat China" at all cost, and whether that is really wise or not will not be considered, in the end. I suppose others are correct. It will likely be going well (defining success as the absence of failure?), we will declare victory - and the fact that this was primarily riding on fumes and a prayer will bite (and potentially kill) some other crew later. Not my kind of risk mitigation ....
I wish them luck. The astronauts know what they are getting themselves into, at least. It will be plenty cool. If risky ...