I am an old school female geek, meaning I have hit the half century mark in life. This is one subject that has rubbed me the wrong way (oops that could be taken out of context)... for many years now.
If we go back a few years back to the days when there were only 3 channels on TV and censorship, well censorship in general was strict, while these type of things happened they didn't become issues especially in the public eye, censorship wouldn't have allowed it. I was a tomboy so most of my friends were male and a lot more fun than playing with dolls. I was also a geek however I had to keep that part a secret for that was a pass to beat up after school everyday.
I will now jump to when I was 13 at which time I began my professional drummer/percussionist position (oops that could be taken incorrectly too, shame on me). Well that most definitely was not the place for a girl, in the eyes of most males and some females, however it sold lots of tickets. I was having fun doing what I enjoyed and ticket buyers got what they paid for... a great band, awesome music, and to see a girl play better than most male drummers. More than once I was pulled off stage backwards, while I was playing, by some idiot who in his words said "Let me show you what girls are supposed to do" and he didn't have music on his mind. It happened twice, separate occasions, that a guy on got passed security and given I was tiny pulling me off stage fast was easy to do. I never made a big deal of it, in fact I simply got back on stage and said that concludes the dumbass portion of our show... and I didn't give it a second thought.
I have held various jobs throughout my life most of which were considered a "man's" job, actually they were geek jobs which were considered male jobs, with the exception of the very short term job I had working on an assembly line counting chicken nuggets into a bag. I hated that job more than anything and decided that my REAL job was finding a different job. The females on the line were far more raunchy than any male I ever worked with however that was OK and allowed, talk about double standards. I actually was laughed at because I didn't get some of the jokes, implications, snide remarks and so on. I lasted a month at that job after which I took a job as a draftsmen back when you had to actually draw on the board not CAD. Meaning you had to know what you were doing.
As time went on and CAD was beginning to take over board drawing I was one of the last to convert because I didn't want anyone to think I was a secretary, not that there is anything wrong with being a secretary, I just worked too hard to get where I was and my drawings were my legacy as nobody's drawings looked the same. Ironically Auto-Cad was what took me deep into the geek world as I no longer liked being a senior designer, I had advanced from draftsmen by this time, I wanted to pick apart what made Auto-Cad work. Again this was not a field for females and I took a lot of flack for it but it went in one ear and out the other.
Computers became my life with Linux being an obsession. It was made very clear I was not wanted in this field but that didn't matter to me all that mattered to me is it was where I wanted to be. All my life I have dealt with sex or sexual innuendo's and there were two ways to handle it, blow it off (oops dang I sure do say a lot of things that could be taken out of context), or be a cry baby about it. I chose the former because I liked my jobs, I do not get offended and if guys want to "fork" you with their "dongle" then hey that was a compliment.
The most memorable job where this type of thing would be an issue for most females these days, I was a Networking Systems Engineer so I was very upper management. All upper management had to take a sexual harassment class once a year. It was laughable at best but hey the food and drinks made it go by fast. I reported directly to the president of the company and he was completely computer stupid. To make a long story short he heard about porn on the internet and wanted me to show him how to access it. OK it was a bit uncomfortable but laughable at the same time as he spent hours in my office so I could show him how to use a computer to access porn. He told his father, who owned the company and before I knew it I was installing computers at both their houses and setting them up for porn. Keep in mind until this point I had never seen porn myself, so hey it was a learning experience... builds character.
These type of situations are only going to get worse... before long female and males will be in separate buildings or everyone will work from home because nobody knows how to act or behave around the opposite sex. With the option of K-12 grades being available online kids will not ever learn how to socialize even within the same sex much less the opposite sex. Heck for all I know sex may become obsolete. We have already lost the art of conversation as when someone tires of communicating with someone they simply stop texting leaving the other wondering why. Just about everyone has a cellphone but how many use the PHONE part? Very few since texting is easier, and one does not even have to type the full words so they can chuck spelling and grammar from the schooling as things like "c u latr" is perfectly understood and accepted.
Men are sexually harassed, embarrassed, and offended at work as well but do you hear them pulling stunts like females do in the same situation? Nope because they blow it off (oops there I go again, double oops, I simply can not say anything that is 100% socially accepted), guess those classes I took fell on deaf ears. I have returned to the music and entertainment industry and found to my surprise the same whining and complaining about being politically correct and sexual harassment taking place with consequences. Females throw their underwear on stage but if someone acted upon the clearly open invitation they could be sued for sexual harassment, rape, or a host of various charges.
My final gotcha in all this crap is who gave who the apple? How did she entice him to take it? How did that make him feel? Of course I am talking of Adam and Eve for those that believe in the bible and no I am not making this a religious argument its an example of where did it all begin and if you ask me Eve was the very first case of sexual harassment towards Adam and he along with the rest of the males have paid for it every since.
As for Twitter I have to use twitlonger because I require more than 140 characters to intelligently convey something, that way there is no way to misunderstand what I meant. Social networking for the business model is a necessary evil these days. While people are not doing things differently since time began it is just now everyone else has access to seeing the stupid, indiscreet, vile things people do and say. We no longer, to quote Bill Engvall, have to say "Here's You Sign" we just have to look at their social networks to find the idiots and stupid people.
If you get offended by something you over hear between two or more other people maybe you should choose to sit in a corner far away from the rest of the human race.