Comment Unwarranted Advice (Score 1) 943
Here are the wonderful gems of advice from the wonderful posters who don't know anything about you or your marriage but decided that they know enough to advise you on your current situation.
do some soul searching
don't put your children second
don't put your spouse second
work no more than 45 hrs/week
don't watch pr0n or play Warcraft
you're just plain SOL because you have poor social skills
you whine too much
As for me, I have no advice, but in regards to your post I'd say that working a lot of extra hours can make your spouse feel unloved and unwanted. Letting them know that they are loved and finding time to prove it of the utmost importance.