Compared to the average liberal, you sound downright reasonable. As a man of the Right, I agree with some of what you said. The main thing we want is to be left alone to live according to our beliefs and values. That is why heavy handed top down solutions like ObamaCare do not work, they are one size fits all attempts to impose a set of values on a country of 330 million people. We do need to improve our healthcare system, and conserving our environment is a good thing for everyone as is investing in American created 5G networks. The wedge issues you cite should never have been the business of the federal government, but belong to the states.
Kudos to you for calling out the left on gun control, BTW. That's a perfect example of a policy that just divides the country irreparably. While favored by some urban/suburban dwellers, its just a non starter else where and would be impossible to implement without civil unrest.
JSJ