Re:Not my children (Score 1)

My kids have been playing violent video games for years, just like I played violent video games when I was a kid. They also have their own iPod's and PDA's, so they are no stranger to technology. What's so odd is that they haven't once gotten into a fight, they help spiders to get outside alive, and are quite helpful around the house. They get straight A's in the gifted and talented program at their school, get invited to birthday parties, and can speak to adults quite well. In short, they are happy, well-liked kids. The reason of course is that their mother and I spend a whole lot of time making sure they understand the difference between fantasy and reality, and we don't let them play games or watch TV unless we know about it and approve. All the things you mentioned may be right for your family, so I'm in no way judging you. However, the simple truth is that only consistent, authoritative, parental(or other guardian) involvement will result in a healthy and happy person.