I recommend you reading this book of Lee Smolin http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Three_Roads_to_Quantum_Gravity

Not true. From the objects point of view it takes only fractions of a second to reach the center. But from an observer, outside the event horizon, it will take an infinite amount of time. But as no information can travel from an object inside the event horizon, this is merely a mathematical curiosa. We can only calculate what happens and how long it'll take. We can never "see" it happen.