So, it sounds like you are saying that you love Eclipse for what you are doing and you want people to try and convince you otherwise. Why?
If it works for you, that's great, but this approach you seem to be taking that anyone who doesn't like Eclipse is, "outdated", or a moron because you've never had that problem before is just petty and ridiculous. You've obviously been using Eclipse for a long time and have it set up in a way that works for you. Good for you.
For folks who are new to Eclipse, like me, I have to agree with the folks who say that the UI is heavy, ugly, and stale. In my limited experience (on OS X, a year ago) I saw toolbar buttons enabled when they weren't applicable. If I pressed one then a dialog would pop up saying something like, "That button isn't enabled." Really? If it wasn't enabled then how did I press it and make you show me that message? So, first impression was that it is low quality. If the UI can't even keep state straight then it feels like a toy. I know, it never happened to you, so it never happened...
So, then I'm working on a RESTful API and the "built in" Tomcat just stops working. So now I can't debug the thing I was able to debug 5 minutes ago. What happened? So I ask the developers who are familiar with Eclipse and they can't get the "built in" Tomcat working again either. Lame. Time to hit Stack Overflow...
So, I take the time to set up key mappings and Fonts & Colors (for which the settings are spread out in different sections). Almost every other time I start Eclipse, my key mappings have been reset for no apparent reason. They're just gone. If I change workspaces I have to set it all up again as well. Lame.
So, yeah, I expect that if you have been working with Eclipse for many years and have already learned its quirks then it seems natural to you now.
My experience with IntelliJ Community Edition on the same machine was that the UI was more modern / consistent, debugging from IJ to standalone Tomcat never gave me a problem, and my fonts, colors, and keystroke mappings never got reset to default values. Everything just worked out of the box with minimal learning curve whereas with Eclipse I was burning too much time on Stack Overflow trying to figure out why it was broken again...