Journal Com2Kid's Journal: So. . .. 4
This was going to be a bit more light hearted but. . .
GF's father is suspicious about us,
He has serious, err, parting issues, does not want to see little girl grown up.
He has an attachment to her by the same means that I do (emotional and psychological dependency created from her towards him), but he has (obviously) had longer time to build it up, on the other hand I am a bit more professional and expertise at it, and being outside the family I have had opportunities to break through barriers that she was afraid to show to her inner-family.
Annnyways, he is going to have a very long talk with her tomorrow (I am sorrowed by the language barrier, if I can communicate naturally with a person in real life I can convince them of anything but the language barrier keeps me away.
So I am now trying to convince GF to tell father the truth, but she is afraid too. Father is a very honorable man who I have the utmost respect for (I am ethically and morally forced to abide by any ruling he makes)
She is afraid to say to him I held her and watched fireworks in park together, she has a very. . . iffy. . . understanding of what innocence is and is very afraid that being held to closely will cause her to be innocent no more and is thus afraid to mention being held by someone else to father. *sighs*
(You can legislate sex ed classes in public school but you can't legislate paying attention in them. -_- )
Re:As A father of 2 girls... (Score:1)
I have nearly a foot and a half on him, that is not a concern.
Nah, pacifist though, and I couldn't harm anybody near to her, so. . . . LOL!
But the main issue is that she has lied to him about being with me before, so now my main worry is that he will project that lying as something I encouraged her to do (I did not, I have been telling her to tell the truth the whole time along, lying is bad)
Bad thing would be him takin it out on her. I've seen this happen. I hope I'm not that much of an ass when my girls are of age.
Actually I can completely understand where he is coming from, perfectly legitimate viewpoint. ^_^ LOL! I hate being understanding of things at times, hehe, makes it hard to get royally PO'd at people.