Comment StackOverflow's Own Fault (Score 5, Insightful) 125
While I am not "vibe" coder I find myself increasingly using AI to get questions to answers that I used to post on SO, and getting pretty good results. Asking a question on StackOverflow has always been a last resort, because that is the way they want it. There is often as much energy expended on why a question shouldn't be answered as opposed to answering it. The mechanisms to search for an existing answer are not good enough to keep you from DEITY FORBID posting a duplicate. Also, the site is not good at dealing with stale content. The "accepted" answer is often no longer the currently correct answer. The level of snark and condescension is significant, and while I don't mind a bit of sarcasm now and then, I don't want to get in continual debates with someone on whether what I'm trying to do is worth doing.
Contrast the experience with AI tools. They do not yell at me for asking a question that could have been found via web search. I do not have to wait, I get an immediate answer. Yes, these tools are overly sycophantic, and sometimes they are wrong. But 90% of the time I will get a workable response and I can choose to have my code updated based upon the answer. In those cases where I don't get a workable result, I either post an issue on the repo (open source) or contact the vendor (closed), which isn't all that different from what I do with SO
Peer-based discussion are useful, and if sites like Stack Overflow disappear, we've lost something. SO can perhaps remain relevant by being better at facilitating deeper design and architecture discussions and leave the simple "how do I" questions to AI.