Beauty is within. A women that is more focused on looks and will damage her body to fit into a jeans isnt attractuve. By damaging, I mean laxitives, bulimia, anorexia, and surgery. I work with beautiful women every day and my opinion (like it matters) is low self-esteem is less attractive than letting it all hang out. I personally like BBWs... I dont like girls that appear fragile and boring. I lost 90 lbs the hard way, exercise and determination. Ive kept it off for 7 years. Even when I was fat, I was still getting attention from beautiful women. Attitude matters more than anything. My advise for you lazy chicks griping about not being the ideal image.... Free yourself from the media. Instead of watching Jersey Shore, go for a walk.

Most fat chicks are gonna mark their body type as average even if they are 60 tons overweight. Im not picky but how can I fall for someone that doesn't care about themselves? I got off my ass 7 years and lost 80lbs and kept it off. Being picky is fine becuads chicks tend to love me more than I love them when we meet on the internet. All of them were less than what I had expected based on what they told me about themselves. The trick to meeting people in real life its too just talk to people. Ask 10 girls out, 1 will say yes. Rejection can be fun if you turn it into a joke.

it's sad that we're more concerned afterwards. /me watches another identify theft commercial on G4 tv. (i miss techtv)