Kid's grandparents means he shares photos of his kids and either his parents or his wife's parents depend on Facebook to see new photos of them.

It might not do much but here you can email the ISPs here: http://act.demandprogress.org/sign/three_strikes

The CC companies don't have to eat this. They take the money back from the merchant who accepted this fraudulent charge. I know this from the Taxi company I worked for (stolen card was used), and the current mail-order company I work for.