hmmm....could be (Score 1)

My first wife and i divorced and I retained custody, not legal custody though. They just ended up living with me which was what I wanted out of the deal. I have worked in IT for 20 years and I think there could be a problem with a spouse not 'speaking your language'. Most IT folks are passionate about their jobs and need someone to talk to about it. A spouse who may not have the background and education could feel alienated. My problem was I was attending school at night and working full time, I'm sure this was part of the problem.... I was not there a lot for three years.