Honestly, I'm sorry.
I've heard lots of conversations from absolutist libertarians that I assumed your questions weren't asked in a way where you were looking for real answers.
Personally, I'm not a socialist in the sense in which it's feared in the United States, but I do believe social programmes should exist to equalise opportunity, and to just ameliorate the effects of a cold, uncaring universe.
I think that privilege that appears self-earned is usually just that people don't look deeper into how their life has ended up the way it has. They attribute anything positive to themselves and their struggles and less to slave labour making their shoes.
So I jumped the gun in assuming you weren't honestly asking.