From first hand experience, I can state that FUD like "the infrastructure will never be ready for mass adoption of EVs" is blatantly false.
For 5 years I charged my first EV at home using the charger it came with, which plugged directly into a standard US 120V socket. No significant increase to my electric bill. No need to install a special ("Level 2") charger. I logged tens of thousands of miles driving to and from work, stores, etc.
Some more modern EVs can even store power and return it to the grid when needed, drawing power when it is plentiful and returning it to the grid when it is scarce. This helps _increase_ grid stability, not threaten it.
If you see statements about infrastructure not being ready for EVs, you should immediately dismiss the author as either gaslighting or hallucinating.