First, an admission: there has been much damage by so called "Christian's" who really should not be called Christian, but either consider themselves to be Christian or are simply labeled as such by the media or other people. And even among real Christian's, nobody is perfect and without sin. I'm not excusing their actions, but you cannot criticize something the Bible teaches (sex is for a married man and women) because so called Christian's like to preach something different / inaccurate. If I were to go around quoting you and getting it half wrong all the time, how is that your fault? So my point here is to separate the teaching from the people.
But, that is why in my previous post I put quotes around "hatred", because that is not accurate. When you hear the word hatred, does that not imply feelings of rage, revenge, bitterness, violence etc.? I could give names of people I know, that are gay in their desires, but are still in church, and are accepted just as much as any other sinner in church, because they are not... how do you say that... actively living with another man. There is no hatred of the man there, and cannot be; all of us in church understand that we all have our own weaknesses and sins, and none of us are better then the other.