I think that's changed with the times. For the last few years, when I went out to bars and restaurants, most of the other people were looking at their phones, and ignoring the surroundings. You couldn't meet new people, because they got irritated that you were interrupting whatever was on their phone.
High speed internet is now almost ubiquitous in suburbs. It brings sporting events from all over the world, music, movies, arts, social media for group and personal friends (from a much larger possible community), video group chat, and all the other things we used to have to go out to find. All of those things are instantly accessable without commuting to work or play. Why spend an hour getting to and from a decent restaurant, and waiting for a table, when you can sit at home, talk to your friends immediately, and have whatever kind of food you want delivered?
You seem to have misread that study. It compares cloth masks, hospital grade masks, and "standard practice". It explicitly states, on the first page, that there is not a "no mask" control group. Standard practice was an unpredictable mixture of medical grade masks, cloth masks, and possibly no mask. However, the study was of health care workers working in high risk wards. Every hospital I've heard of mandates masks, especially for it's own workers, and especially in high risk areas. So the "standard practice" group was potentially similar to the medical mask group.
"The control arm was 'standard practice', which comprised mask use in a high proportion of participants. As such (without a no-mask control), the finding of a much higher rate of infection in the cloth mask arm could be interpreted as harm caused by cloth masks, efficacy of medical masks, or most likely a combination of both."
You don't have to travel. So you don't have to deal with airport security.
You don't have to stay in a hotel.
You can hear the presenttation, not people around you talking through it, coughing, and sneezing.
You can eat your own food, and stacks, possibly during the conferences.
You don't have to smell your fellow nerds (and vice versa).
Many kids duck out of real-world school. If you watch the local high school, you can see lots of kids entering in the morning. A few minutes later, you can watch many of them leave out the side doors. They check into homeroom, then leave. Most of the teachers don't have the time, or interest, to check attendance in every class period. So the kids are just assumed to be present.
In contrast, the online classes track logons (attendance), and give reports.
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