Idlechat's Journal: Abused

She told me that I shouldn't let people abuse me like that. The question is - how?

My take

[bellus quies]

Ok, I don't know the whole story, or even part of it. But I would say if you are being taken advantage of you should communicate better adn more often. Let people involved know what you want/don't want to do, so that you don't end up doing something that you don't want to. If you're fine with the status quo, then don't change a thing.

It's up to you. If you like the state of things, keep on doing what you're doing, if you are unsettled by the way things are, make a change.

A part of the story

[Idlechat]

It's not typical abuse, but more like being an emotional dirtbag.. someone who only play minor roles at people's life.
That girl behaved coldly some years ago so I haven't spoken with her. By incident she recognized me on some blog and made contact again, at first without knowing me.

So, I told her that I want her to show me that she's sorry, because I'm a sensitive guy and everyone abuses me. So she told me that it's because I let other people abuse me.

I guess I can find out by myself the answer to the qu