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Journal dave4ja's Journal: Attract Women Basic Skills

What exactly is the right way to attract a girl? How come some guys get all the attention from the ladies while others keep struggling to start a conversation with women? You might think these guys are naturally gifted with attracting girls.

In fact, it is the opposite. They are not born this way. They know what works with girls and what does not. It is all about the skills you have and the way you make use of them. Practice them well and you'll have these skills as well.

Continue reading and you'll be one of the guys in the know.

Conversing is one of the most overlooked skill when it comes to attracting girls. It is one of the foundation you need to build in order to attract girls. It will not be easy to attract girls unless you can talk to them.

Your personality represented by the way you talk with girls. Girls will evaluate guys on the first five minutes of the conversation with them. It usually happens even faster than you are aware. Learn to develop and master you conversation skills if you want to attract girls.

If you are in a bar, you don't want to talk to like you are in an interview. You won't get any girl if you talk like that. If a girl is talking to you and asking you questions, give her a funny reply. They key is to answer her questions directly. You want to avoid straight answers. Memorable comebacks can be one of your best secret weapon to get the flirting going. One thing you always want to do is show how confident you are.

Girls are more likely to enjoy being with someone of high value than someone else. The more value you have, the more attractive you are to the fairer sex.

It is not as attractive if a man chases after every woman he sees. If you want to attract girls, have girls come and chase you. It is a simple concept. If you already have girls going after you, you can bet there will be more coming after you. Women want men who are already having success with other women.

Think about it.

Most hot women get ogled by numerous guys throughout the day. And more often than not, what most of these guys do are lame and have been done before. And you thought being a pretty girl was easy. You can use that to empathize with her while you talk about it. Sometimes it can be really funny when you give examples.

This is just one of the way you can get things moving your way. It makes you not like everybody else. This can also get her at ease and relax a little. It makes the conversation progress and the attraction begins.

If you want to know if you have a chance with a girl, look at her in the eyes. If a girl initiates eye contact with you, you'll know if she's interested if she smiles at you. However, if she turns her head away without much change in her expression, she's looking for something else. This will allow you to know who is willing to talk to you.

As you know, majority of communication is through your actions. Non-verbal speaks volumes about you. It doesn't really matter if you have few things to say. You must be able to convey the right gestures and body movements. Your body language will give you away if you feel not confident. You won't be able to give a genuine smile. Your hands might tremble. Try to become more conscious of the signals your are sending. You can also be more observant of her body language.

It is vital to approach with confidence than to focus on what you are going to say. A magic line will not make her instantly fall in love with you. It is all about the confidence and that is what counts most. Because confidence is what women look for and wants, you better have it ready when meeting them.

These are just some of the components of how to attract women. Build up your knowledge so you can avoid the struggles most people have.

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