Men get killed in war.
One is dead, the other will heal (regardless of what the SJW brigade says, wounds from assaults do normally heal.)
Also, men are routinely raped by invading Armies AND killed. They haven't in recent centuries, but that is not the rule as far as war. Just look at the actions of the Red Army against the Germans in the fall of Berlin, which did include male/male rape.
Who is exactly on the worst end?