Journal queenofthe1ring's Journal: User's Manual Meme 2
Stolen from some random guy on Rachel's list. No finals today, so hopefully I'll be able to get some studying done after lunch.
How does someone make you happy?
Well... in general I get happy when people compliment/congradulate/praise me when I do something that I am proud of. When people do little things to show that they've been thinking of me.
If you are angry or hurting, what should we do? what should we *not* do?
You should listen to me. A lot of times I don't really feel like talking about it, but when I do want to, you should listen. Don't judge. Don't offer an opinion. Just listen. Try to find something to cheer me up with. Yes, that's usually difficult, but it's worth it.
Are there things we should ~not~ discuss?
There are some personal things that I don't like to talk about, but since I don't bring them up, it's generally not a problem. Don't offer me your opinion on personal matters unless I ask for it. All you'll do is frustrate me, and lower my opinion towards you.
How do you want to be treated when you are sick?
In general I like to be taken care of (ie: have someone that will get me drinks, turn on my movies and things). I like for someone to be there and show that they care.
What do you share with others?
Not much anymore. Mostly only the superficial things going on in my life (schoole, etc) but nothing that I ponder in the bitter watches of the night.
What do you NOT share with others?
Oops, just answered this one, see above.
Are there times of year that are difficult for you?
It really depends on what's going on at the time.
Are there important anniversaries that we should recognize in your life?
Um, my birthday I guess. My anniversary with fiancé is important to me.
How does someone become your friend?
Be interesting and fun to be around. Be trustworthy and honest. Once you lose my trust, it's over.
How does someone lose you as a friend?
Oops already answered that one too, see above. Oh, also going behind my back, and being fake. I absolutely hate it when people will pretend to be my friend, and then once they leave they go around badmouthing me or spreading things I told them in confidence. "I hate it more than mayonaise" (sp) -- Whole 9 Yards.
Who are the most important people in your life to whom we should defer when making plans on your behalf?
Making plans on my behalf? I think you should really talk to me if I'm going to be involved in any way. I guess fiancé, although he would allow you to plan things that I wouldn't like because he thought it would be fun.
How would you like for us to recognize your birthday?
People never remember my birthday, even if it comes up in conversation the day before. So really, anything you do for my birthday would totally tickle me. Even if you just said "Hey, Happy Birthday queen!"
Are there standing categories of presents that would be welcome or inappropriate?
Just get me something small and thoughtful. Big expensive presents make me uncomfortable. A gift card or a interesting book or something would be great. Most of the time I'll be happy with just a card.
What scares you?
A great many things. Most of which are childish and stupid. Like those weird anamatronic things. And people in those big mascot-like costumes. The dark. I could go on if I thought you were interested.
What are you most sensitive about?
Almost everything. Anything where an opinion or an insult can be given.
Apologies... (Score:2)
I'm sorry.
Now for the rest of the post.
If you take that Meme, and replace every answer with "Oral Sex" it becomes hilarious.
Re:Apologies... (Score:2)
*Winner(s) of said cookie(s) must come to Boston to collect.