Frankly, it worked out for my sons, but I honestly still have concerns. Two of my sons went to colleges, one fancy, one not. They both have jobs in high tech making that SV money. Two of my other sons (who are younger) did not. One went to a web Boot Camp and now works for a defense contractor also making that tech money. The other now designs parts for an aviation start up, a skill he learned on the job. I honestly have no advice. "It depends" is the best I can do.