mercedo's Journal: Kids

She is 46, and it will take 2 or 3 years to face menaupose. Physiologically speaking it is still possible for her to have babies. She said around after two weeks are in danger. 'Danger of what?' 'Danger of pregnacy' To tell the truth we'd like to enjoy sex, but we don't want to have burden of childraising, let alone childbearing. So naturally we have to think about the way of contraception. Taking a pill is not common in our country unlike other advanced countries. I said I don't ejaculate in to her body. We don't want kids. Kids have nothing to do with our love. sometimes it strengthen our love, but other way around, it lessens our love.

The meaning of marrige has been changing a great deal since my younger days. In my twenties it was nothing but a crystalisation of love in spiritual meaning. In my mid thirties it has economical meaning more than anything. Now in my mid forties I am about to conclude that marriage is for two opposite sexes to have sex act exclusively. Hegel once wrote it so. For those who have got no kids it is very true.

The meaning of marriage is changing everywhere

[DisownedSky]

The purpose of marriage, as I see it, is to introduce structure into a committed relationship and to establish recognized rights for the partners and any progeny that may ensue. It doesn't add commitment, only structures it.

If you are sure you don't want kids, a simple and low risk outpatient procedure will completely remove any possibility of future fatherhood. Sister Sky has performed scores of these, and from her description, it's unlikely to cause any complications. Or, there are condoms. Just abou

Re:The meaning of marriage is changing everywhere

[mercedo]

Kids ought to be a result of love, not a purpose. I don't want kids since they prevent us from achieving a perfect accord by two free will. Also once we had kids, we would start loving kids, not our partners. We start thinking of the benefit of our kids in the first place, not our partners. We have to share everything with our kids, not only with our partners. It takes many years to raise our children. We are already mid-forties. We enjoy our lives in the first place.